May is officially Masturbation month!! (surely this should be all year round) So, to get the juices flowing...........here’s our guide to masturbation tips.

Getting in the Mood 

It is very important to set the scene in order to relax and reach a climax. This is obviously a personal choice and varies from person to person. Some people don't feel the need to drag it out and just lie down on the bed and get on with it, whereas others like to take their time by bathing in scented oils, lighting candles, listening to some sexy music on the ipod or stereo, applying body lotions and dressing in sexy lingerie before getting comfy..

Ensure Privacy

Very, very important (unless you like the idea of getting caught of course) is to make sure you wont be disturbed by anyone. you may want to lock the door and turn off the phone. For most people ensuring privacy means masturbating in their bedroom or doing it when nobody is in the house.If you want to truly relax and get in the mood before you start masturbating, then make sure that you won’t be disturbed by anyone.

Your Clitoris

A clitoral orgasm is much easier to achieve for most women rather than a vaginal one so we will focus on that first. For those that don't know, the Clitoris is a small hooded nub at the top of the vagina which becomes bigger when aroused and is also extremely sensitive after climax. To stimulate try rubbing gently with your fingers, it is advisable to apply a small amount of lube as dry rubbing can become uncomfortable, if you are particularly sensitive, try indirect stimulation by rubbing above or around it, rather than touching it directly. Its best to start off nice and slow, massaging it gently and gradually building up to the intensity which works for you..... but don't forget, as you climax, you may want to ease right off as that little bud can be EXTREMELY sensitive. 

Hitting Your G Spot

Another type of orgasm, that many prefer to regular clitoral orgasms, is the G Spot orgasm. But before you can start stimulating it, you need to actually find the G Spot. It only appears and becomes engorged when you are aroused. However, it doesn't require a Sat Nav to find it! It’s located inside your vagina on the front wall, about 1.5 inches from the entrance. If you hold your palm flat against you stomach so that your fingers are pointing downwards and slowly move your fingers down your stomach and then slide them inside your vagina and hook them backwards, you should be able to feel a slightly rough patch of skin that feels very much like the top of your palate in your mouth. This is your G Spot.......introduce yourself and say hi!! 

There are a number of ways you can stimulate this magic spot with your fingers. You can make a ‘come-hither’ motion with your fingers to massage it or you can hold your fingers pressed against it, and move the rest of your arm to stimulate it. How you do it is really up to you, but make sure to do some experimentation to find out what you enjoy the most. Once stimulated, the G spot will become engorged with fluid, and this is what contributes to female ejaculation or "squirting" or "gushing". You can also discover your G spot with the help of a G spot stimulating toy.

There are many on the market today, all designed to "hit that spot". There are also some G spot arousal gels which will stimulate even more.

Using Lube Very, very important! Lubes are designed to help with the stimulation and make everything more pleasurable. There are several different types of lube to choose from water-based, silicon, tingling and oils. These are a personal preference and you should experiment to discover your personal favourite.

Using Toys

A great way to intensify your orgasms when learning how to masturbate is to use sex toys. There are a number of different ones that you can use.

Vibrators are probably the best for replacing your fingers, but make sure to spend a little extra when buying one so that you can get one with adjustable speeds. The vibrators that are stuck at a high speed can prove to be too strong & intense for some. Also, you need to choose one that is going to be comfortable for you.

The materials used these days is now much safer and of a higher quality. Silicone vibrators tend to have a more luxury feel to them. Dildos are great for replacing your man’s penis when he’s not around or just for fantasising about having sex with someone. "Suction cup" designs are particularly good as they will stick to most surfaces using suction, this then frees up your hands for extra manipulation (woohoo).

Bullet vibrators are amazing clitoral stimulators and are not designed for internal use. These are very intense and powerful and the different functions allow for you to find the setting just perfect for you. These include orgasm inducing pulsing settings!! They are also very discrete and will slip into a make up bag looking very much like a lipstick so you can just whip it out and have yourself a sly little moment....

While there a huge variety of different sex toys that you can use on yourself, the last one that I’m going to talk about using is the butt plug. Using a butt plug has been considered in the past as a taboo but is something that many women find intensifies their orgasms while masturbating...

Pornography

Not for everyone, agreed! but a lot of people do use pornography for visual stimulation during masturbation. why not pop a porno in the dvd player next time you have your "me" time and see how you get on, it may not be for you, but no harm in trying eh? It may intensify the experience for you...

Erotica - FORN or Female Porn some are calling it.

The release of the 50 Shades of Grey Trilogy has seen a massive increase in the amount of women reading erotica.Again, they are not for everyone, but are definitely worth trying at least once to see if they have any effect on what you fantasise and think about while you masturbate.

We hope you like our guide.

Happy Masturbating! Xxx