What is it?

The A-spot is a pleasure point located deep inside the vagina between the cervix and the bladder.

More specifically, it is known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone and it’s about two inches higher than the G-spot.

The female prostate?

The A-spot is sometimes referred to as the female prostate due to it’s similar location as the prostate (P-Spot) in those who were assigned male at birth.

The famous G-spot is also referred to in this way as both A & G spots are incredibly close together.

The A-spot is along the front vaginal wall, about 4-6 inches back but of course, variation is to be expected as everyone’s internal structure is different and unique to them.

How do I find it?

The A-spot is located along the front vaginal wall, roughly two inches deeper inside the vaginal canal than the G-spot.

It’s usually stimulated by making a come-hither motion with your fingers inside your vagina, or with penetration angled at your front vaginal wall.

It may be hard to reach with only your fingers. Using a suitable vibrator or wand toy that’s at least 5 inches long will be beneficial as well as having a partner whose penis or fingers are long enough.

Despite being called a spot and many having experienced it as such; it’s important to note that many find the A-spot to be a pleasure zone due to the number of nerve endings in that area that can be pleasurable to touch.

Find your own pleasure: A-spot or not!

Though A-spot stimulation can be a very sexy and intense way to orgasm.

It is completely fine if you don’t like A-spot play. There’s many more erogenous zones to discover and experiment with!

Always explore your own pleasure in your own time and at your own comfort level.

Read more about Female Orgasms HERE

Professor Gert Holstege at the University of Groningen conducted a brain scan experiment with heterosexual couples aged 19-49.

The scans showed very interesting differences between the male and female orgasm.

One half of the couple was asked to lie down, with their head inside a scanner, while their partner stimulated them manually to achieve orgasm.

To help set the mood, the lighting was dimmed and any noisy distractions were shut off. The couples then switched positions and the experiment was repeated.

The women were also asked to fake an orgasm so that the scan results could be compared with those taken during their genuine orgasms.

There were big differences..

The scans found that when a woman is faking an orgasm, a part of the brain under conscious control lights up, while real orgasms occur subconsciously.

Professor Holstege said: “Women can imitate orgasm quite well.”

Regarding real orgasm, he said: “What we see is an extreme deactivation of large portions of the brain and especially the emotional parts involved with fear.”

If you look at the women who faked orgasm intentionally you see the motor cortex - the conscious part of the brain - is activated.

This means the movements that we make in real orgasm are not conscious.

“And if you are fearful, it is very hard to have sex. It's very hard to let go.”

This is extremely useful for men to know.

IN WOMEN, TURNING OFF FEAR AND ANXIETY IS KEY.

When you want to make love to a woman, you must give her the feeling of being protected.

Men however, need to know they will be physically stimulated.

In comparison, the scan results suggested that for men knowing that they would be physically stimulated was important because areas of the brain involved in interpreting touch were highly activated during the experiment.

Read more about Female Orgasms HERE

It may sound like a made up orgasm but the mysterious nipplegasm is certainly a real thing. What exactly is it?

Nipple stimulation releases oxytocin, which can cause the uterine and vaginal contractions associated with orgasm bring more blood flow to the genitals, and for some women, cause an orgasm.

Not convinced yet?

Nipples (the breast, nipple & areola region) are packed with nerve endings that make them ideal for pleasure.

In 2006, the first scientific survey questioning men and women about their experience of nipple stimulation was conducted. Results indicated that nipple stimulation was reported to enhance sexual arousal in 82% of women and 52% of men.

Nipples are wired to the same location in the brain that inputs sensation from the clitoris and vagina.

There are many reports that nipplegasms pleasure intensity ranges from a small sigh-like type of orgasm to the mind blowing toe-curling variety.

Hopefully, we've convinced you to explore this orgasm further. Let us know if you’ve already experienced your very own nipplegasm in the comments.

1. Around 100 million Couples Around the World Have Sex Every Day

That breaks down to around 65,000 couples having sex right this moment. Now you know why no ones answering your texts.

2. Semen Can Make Women Less Depressed

Archives of Sexual Behaviour study found that women directly exposed to semen vaginally (without a condom) were less depressed. Researchers believe the mood-altering hormones in semen were absorbed into the body through the vagina.

3. Gays, Straights, & Animals Arouse Women

Seems all types of sex turn women on as Researchers at Queens University found even though straight women reported only being aroused by men. Most women became aroused at every stimulus they saw: men's and women's bodies, heterosexual and homosexual sex, and even animal sex.

4. Erections Follow Men Throughout Their Lives

From birth to death. It has even been shown that fetuses can have erections. Death by hanging can yield a boner and even some people have post-mortem erections.

5. Women Are More Willing To Commit Adultery During Their Ovulation

This is more likely than at any other time throughout their cycle. This is most notably due to their bodies’ desire to fertilize the ovulated egg. Keep an eye on the calendar boys.

6. Pumpkins Can Give You An Erection

While chocolate gets all the praise, the smell of pumpkin apparently can help increase the blood flow to the penis, encouraging an erection! If you want to get your man in the mood, sweet-smelling baked pumpkin pie will do the trick.

7. Sex Isn’t the Only Thing on Men’s Brains, Sleep & Food Are Too

If you thought men think about sex 24-7… you’re wrong! A Journal of Sex Research found men ponder about sleep and food as much as they think about sex. Men roughly 18 times a day to women’s 10 times a day. However, men also thought about food and sleep proportionately more.

8. 1 Out of Every 10 European Babies Is Conceived on An IKEA bed

We think those naughty little Swedish meatballs have a lot to answer to!

9. The World’s Largest Recorded Penis Is A Whopping 13.5 Inches

This third limb belongs to New Yorker Jonah Falcon, whose penis is 9.5 inches flaccid and 13.5 inches erect. According to Falcon, having the biggest dick in the world isn’t always fun as most women hit the road the moment his pants come down. Size don’t always matter it seems.

10. The Average Length of An Erect Penis Is 5.6 Inches

Despite what men and women are led to believe, the length of a man’s penis fully erect is not really that important, it’s all about that motion in the ocean.

11. Sex In Zero Gravity Space Is Very Unlikely

“Sex is very difficult in zero gravity, apparently, because you have no traction and you keep bumping against the walls,” biologist Athena Andreadis of the University of Massachusetts Medical School told SPACE.com. “Think about it: you have no friction, you have no resistance.”

12. Sex Slang Goes As Far Back As Ancient Greece

In Victorian times, a slang term for a prostitute was “blowsy”. At the same time, “blow” was slang for ejaculation. By the 1930s, the act of fellatio came to be known as a blow job and in Ancient Greece, the common slang for a blow job was “playing the flute”

13. The Record For Having Sex With the Most Men In 24 hours Is 919

This interesting honour goes to American Lisa Sparks who bedded an impressive 919 men! That’s roughly 38 men per hour. Let’s hope she had a good rest after

14. You Feel Less Pain During Sex

Have you ever wondered why you love the sensation of a good hard spank over the ass? That’s because your pain threshold can increase significantly during arousal, according to a study published in the Journal of Sex Research.

15. The Cowgirl Position May Be Too Dangerous

You both may love having her riding the bull but it turns out that woman sitting on top position can cause a lot of injury to a man. Pressure from thrusting can hurt penile tissue to the point of altering the way it erects. Think bananas. You can make the cowgirl much safer and thus enjoyable by simply leaning forward.

16. Female Wet Dreams Are A Real Thing

Wet dreams aren’t exclusive to teenage boys and those moist mornings. Women can apparently become aroused and have orgasms during their sleep – up to 6 times a night! These nighttime arousals may not be obvious but they usually involve the whole vulva and vagina areas being engorged.

17. Greeks Are Having The Most Sex

Greek couples have sex an average of 138 times a year, placing them at the top of the world sex league a study found. Japanese couples have sex a mere 45 times a year in comparison, which puts them in the last place. Another factor why the Japanese population is rapidly decreasing perhaps?

18. Eating Chocolate Is Like Falling In Love

Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, which is the same feel-good chemical responsible for the euphoric high people experience in sexual attraction and love. Pass the Milk Tray!

19. Semen Was Once Used As Invisible Ink

During World War I members of the British Secret Intelligence Service (MI6) discovered you could use semen as invisible ink! They stopped using it after they realized how badly it smelled when it got old. Puts a new meaning to Queen and Country.

20. An Orgasm Can Clear Your Sinuses

This comes about due to your body getting a rush of adrenaline when you have an orgasm, which causes tissues in the nose to shrink, opening up passageways. No more need for Sudafed.

21. Mushrooms Can Make Women Orgasm

More specifically, the mushroom Phallus Indusiatus which apparently can make a woman orgasm spontaneously by smelling it! Time for a Sunday stroll in the woods we say.

22. Sperm Can Reduce Your Wrinkles

Sperm is highly effective in treating wrinkles. This is why many anti-wrinkle products use similar materials to sperm. Save yourself fifty quid and grab your partner!

23. Humans Are The Only Mammals With Permanently Swollen Breasts

Boobs are there all the time (Thank you Jesus!) whereas other animals only have them when nursing. Seems nature has more than one use for them.

24. Anal Sex Was Once Punishable By Death In England & Wales

This ridiculously harsh punishment was enacted between 1533 and 1861. Clearly, it wasn’t fully enforced or else half of aristocratic society would’ve been put to death.

25. Sex Boosts Your Health

Those having sex once or twice a week are having their immune system boosted, stress relieved, heart disease and diabetes risks lowered by 30-40% and increasing their chances of inducing a good sleep. Sex really is a beautiful thing!

The last few years have brought amazing technology to the sex toy world and vibrators are at the helm. The days of the standard rabbit plodding along are long gone as each year something truly unique and innovative comes to market. Here at Vibez, we are proud to offer our customers a range of the world’s most unique and innovative vibrators and here’s a list of five of them for you to consider…

Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit

The Satisfyer range is well and truly living up their name and the Pro-Rabbit will stimulate your love bead touch-free through pressure waves. This will ensure deeper stimulation which leads to multiple orgasms! If that wasn’t enough, the Pro-Rabbit further broadens the unique feeling of clitoral pressure wave stimulation to include an additional G-spot massage. It also provides you with 3 vibration intensities and 7 rhythms giving you deep vaginal vibes.

Meanwhile, the clitoral stimulator caresses your love bead with sensual pressure wave stimulation. The round silicone attachment encircles your clitoris as you are brought to a touch-free climax. This gives you a sensation similar to that of a man or woman who knows what they’re doing in the basement. A rapid change between suction and pressure is available in 11 intensities - you’ll be forgiven for developing a close attachment to this bad boy.

UNIQUE FACTOR: Uses pulsating air currents to deliver the deepest clitoral stimulation!

Svakom Primo Remote Control Warming Butt Plug

This remote control butt plug vibrator isn’t only for the ladies, gentlemen too can use it’s innovative warming function to heat things up in the bedroom! The motor inside the smooth, silicone plug has 5 different modes and 5 different intensities so you can be as greedy as a fat kid at Greggs. The real kicker that the Primo delivers is its equipped heating core which can heat the vibrator up to roughly 38C / 100.4F. Save on the heating bill this month and get the Primo instead!

UNIQUE FACTOR: A vaginal and anal plug that comes remote controlled and with a heating function!

Loving Joy Dua Interchangeable Vibrator With 2 Attachments

Who doesn’t love two different vibrators for the price of one? Spoil yourself rotten while saving the pennies with the DUA Interchangeable Vibrator with 2 attachments! Pleasure always comes in twos with this beauty as it features two interchangeable heads: a Wand head to allow for deep vibrations that will obliterate any tension in your body and the Rabbit extension which will bring you orgasmic delights with simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Self-love has never felt so good!

UNIQUE FACTOR: Interchangeable vibrator featuring a wand and rabbit head!

Bi Stronic Fusion Vibrator

Are the kids away at grandmas for the night and Ian’s on a pub crawl with the lads? Perfect, because it’s YOU time and the Bi Stronic Fusion will make a fantastic companion giving you thrusting action and powerful vibration all in one vibrator! The bestselling Stronic pulsator is paired with one of the strongest external motors on the market, for the world’s first dual action toy that combines realistic thrusting with body quaking vibration. Is Ian coming home early? No problem, as you can choose from 64 amazing stimulation settings sure to give you a speedy journey to nirvana!

The Bi Stronic delivers real innovation with its patterns and crescendos of internal movement and pressure. It also features deep vibrations that focus on the clit and flutters against the labia. This pink beauty is designed and handcrafted in Germany (so you know it’s some good shit) and uses the highest quality body-safe silicone on the market. This one-of-a-kind toy boasts an intuitive button interface, a waterproof design for versatility and easy cleaning, a travel lock with a clear on/off control, and a charge indicator – so that you never run out of fun on those special nights in.

UNIQUE FACTOR: A self-thrusting vibrator that uses magnets and pistons to thrust!

E-Stimulation G-Spot Vibrator

Looking to experiment with electro-play without jumping into the deep end? Then the E-Stim vibrator is for you! It uses electrical currents to stimulate nerve endings in erogenous zones, these vibrating stimulators will take your orgasms to a whole new level! By targeting the most intimate areas, but adding electricity, specifically erotic electro-stimulation, this high-tech form of sex will send shockwaves into the bedroom creating your very own lightning show!

The E-Stim vibrator also offers a variety of impulses, from a gentle tickle to a heavy throbbing throughout the body. Practising electro-sex with electro-shock requires caution. We’re all adults here so be sure to keep electro-sex play below the waist only – no matter how drunk and noisy Ian is when he gets home. Do NOT use this toy in combination with water!

Back to the fun - has finding your G-spot always given you that trickle down your spine? Well, the beautifully crafted E-Stim comes with 2 (light) electro-shock stimulation points. There is one at the top and one in the G-spot area. The E-Stim is also waterproof, made of superior smooth silicone and has a 10-speed mode for unwavering pleasure!

UNIQUE FACTOR: Vibrator with intense electro-stimulation in a single unit with no external pack needed!

For many men, the female orgasm is almost as mystifying as the clitoris. Women are complex, beautiful and fantastic creatures – and so is the female orgasm! We share some fascinating and important facts and info as we try to de-mystify the beauty of the female orgasm with insights from author, research scientist, and sex advice and educator, Dr. Debby Herbenick.

Women Achieve Orgasm Through A Four-Step Process

Sex researchers William Masters and Virginia Johnson were the ones to first describe, decades ago, what many now deem as a four-step orgasmic process that women go through:

1. Excitement - The woman initiates or agrees to sex, and as it commences she finds herself focusing mainly on sexual stimuli. Blood begins to engorge the clitoris, vagina, and nipples and creates a full body sexual blush. Heart rate and blood pressure increases.
2. Plateau - Sexual tension builds as a precursor to orgasm. The outer one-third of the vagina becomes particularly engorged with blood, creating what researchers refer to as "the orgasmic platform." Focus on sexual stimuli drowns out all other sensations. Heart rate, blood pressure, and respiration continue to increase.
3. Orgasm - A series of rhythmic contractions occur in the uterus, vagina, and pelvic floor muscles. The sexual tension caused by lovemaking releases, and muscles throughout the body may contract. A feeling of warmth usually emanates from the pelvis and spreads throughout the entire body.
4. Resolution - The body relaxes, with blood flowing away from the engorged sexual organs. Heart rate, blood pressure, and respiration return to normal. This sounds like a great Saturday night in.

Orgasms Get Better With Age

Who said getting old is a bad thing? Not for women of a certain age. According to Dr. Herbenick “Orgasm becomes easier with age,” which she says includes the quality and frequency of orgasms. “As an example, while 61% of women ages 18-24 experienced orgasm the last time they had sex, 65% of women in their 30s did and about 70% of women in their 40s and 50s did,” she reports.

Even though the survey didn't specify why orgasms come easier with age, you can safely assume that as women become more sexually experienced, they have more confidence in the bedroom and therefore enjoy themselves more. Also, the trust and intimacy that most women experience in long-term relationships can help improve sexual confidence as well.

Finding Your G-Spot May Improve The Likelihood Of Orgasm

Ladies, can you identify where your G-spot is? The “G” actually refers to Ernst Gräfenberg, MD, a German gynecologist who is credited with “discovering” it in the 1950s, and sex experts have long touted this area of female genitalia, which is believed to contain a large number of nerve endings, as the key to helping women achieve longer and stronger orgasm!

The topic isn’t without controversy though as researchers in England refuted its existence recently, even after Italian researchers reported to have found the spot on ultrasound and published their findings in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. Despite the contradictions, sex educators such as Los Angeles–based Ava Cadell support the existence of the G-spot, and she (and us at Vibez) encourages women to find theirs! While the location may be slightly different for all women, its most often found inside the vagina and is characterized by a “rougher” texture.

30% Of Women Have Trouble Reaching Orgasm

If you’ve ever had trouble climaxing, you’re not alone. According to Planned Parenthood statistics, as many as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex and up to 80% of women have difficulty with orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone (gentlemen, don’t be fooled). Clitoral stimulation during intercourse can be helpful, says Stern, but so can medical treatment if needed.

“Female sexual dysfunction (FSD), which encompasses the inability to orgasm, is very common - as high as 43%, according to some surveys and has been a topic of much debate and medical investigation lately," she says. “For some women, topical testosterone therapies or some oral medications can be helpful, but few medical treatments have solid evidence behind them.” Because FSD may be associated with certain medical conditions, be sure to see your doctor to rule out things like thyroid disease, depression or diabetes.

A Woman's Sexual Self-Esteem Can Affect The Quality Of Her Orgasms

Research shows that how a woman feels about her genitals is linked to the quality of her orgasms. “As a women's health clinician, I can vouch for the fact that every vagina looks different and there is no ‘perfect’ way for a vagina to look,” says Stern. “As long as your vagina is pain-free and you don't have any abnormal discharge, sores or other medical problems, you can consider yourself healthy and normal.” Increase your orgasm potential by increasing your confidence, she says. “It's important to treat yourself the way you would want others to treat you, send yourself healthy, positive messages about yourself and your body.” Don’t be afraid to look into the mirror starkers and tell yourself you’re beautiful because you are!

For Most Women, It Takes A While To Orgasm

This may come as not much of a surprise but women take longer to orgasm than men. It’s perfectly normal by the way, says Stern. As a matter of fact, according to statistics, most women require at least 20 minutes of sexual activity to climax – that doesn’t sound like a downside. “If you find that your partner often reaches orgasm before you do, there are ways to help him slow down,” she says. “Mental exercises can sometimes work, and so can firm pressure around the base of his penis. If premature ejaculation is a concern, your partner may want to see a doctor or urologist to find some techniques that might help.”

Women Who Mix Things Up In The Bedroom Have More Frequent Orgasms

If you have trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse, consider switching things up, says Dr. Herbenick. “It is significantly easier for women to experience orgasm when they engage in a variety of sex acts as opposed to just one act,” she says. “For example, vaginal sex plus oral sex would be linked to a higher likelihood of orgasm than either one of them alone. This may be because more sex acts mean that people spend more time having sex.”

Orgasms Can Happen Without Genital Stimulation

You might’ve heard about those seemingly lucky women who can have an orgasm riding a bike or sitting on a saddle but it's no urban legend apparently. Experts say it's actually a real phenomenon. “I had a friend who had an orgasm every time she used the treadmill,” says Stern. "If that happened to all of us, we'd be a much more physically fit society!” There’s actually an explanation for why this occurs. “The reason for spontaneous orgasms during certain activities is twofold—increased blood flow to the genitals and vibration of or contact with the clitoris. The increased blood flow and the general relaxation of a massage can lead to orgasm sometimes, too.”

There Is An Orgasm "Gap"

While it’s true that a small number of men have trouble with orgasm, sex experts report that it's rare. Instead, a fairly high percentage of women report not having had an orgasm the last time they had sex, even when their man thought they did. Dr. Herbenick notes, “We still have an orgasm gap. While 85% of men thought their partner had an orgasm during their most recent intercourse session, only 64% of women reported actually having an orgasm.” Is there a cure for this? It's complicated, says Dr. Herbenick, but women who are comfortable with and understand their body's pleasure points can often learn to orgasm regularly. Keep communication open with your partner and always make sure to love the skin you’re in.

Gentlemen, we all know that feeling. Heavy breaths, tightening muscles, toes wiggling uncontrollably and then… BAM! Have a fag, maybe a nap - happy days. There’s actually a fair amount of interesting information regarding the male orgasm that you most likely don’t know so let’s have a look at some fun facts all about the male orgasm!

An Orgasm Can Get You HIGH

Stop wasting hours waiting for the green-man and grab your cock! It turns out that brain scans on men experiencing orgasms have shown that the most excited brain region during climax is the ventral tegmental region. It is packed with receptors for neurotransmitters associated with reward. The same area of the brain lights up like Piccadilly Circus on a Saturday night when heroin users shoot up, Danish researchers have discovered.

So, why are orgasms as pleasurable as taking smack? “Because ejaculation introduces sperm into the female reproductive tract, it would be critical for reproduction of the species to favour ejaculation as a most-rewarding behaviour,” writes study author Gert Holstege, M.D., Ph.D.

You Can Get Her Pregnant Without Orgasming

Not thinking of popping down to Vibez to pick up a pack of condoms? STOP. Reconsider that choice because, during foreplay and sex, most men release a pre-ejaculate, which is a fluid that helps lubricate intercourse and clears out your urethra to allow the semen to travel through without obstruction. That familiar sticky fluid was analysed and published in the journal for Human Fertility and it found that 41% of guys produced pre-ejaculate that contained sperm—up to 40 million of the little buggers! It only takes one of little Johnny’s swimmers to make a baby (as you well know) so be sure to keep those fairly high odds in mind if reproducing is the last thing on your mind.

Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms Too If You're Lucky!

It turns out those lucky ladies aren’t the only ones who can enjoy the pleasure of multiple orgasms. For most men, the typical refractory period (the time between your last orgasm and when you'll be able to reload the water gun again) is anywhere from a few minutes to a whole hour. However, 15% - 20% of men surveyed for the infamous Kinsey reports (books on human sexual behaviour) claimed to have had multiple orgasms, and according to Masters and Johnson, some men reported they can climax again after just 60 seconds! Although these will be non-ejaculatory orgasms, it’s still an impressive post-game result!

Post-Orgasms Are Better With A Partner

We all know solo sessions are great fun, but after an orgasm, the body releases a hormone called Prolactin. It basically shuts off your sex drive for up to an hour. This is why that Pornhub clip of big tit Sally talking dirty and moaning immediately bores you. However, a team of Scottish researchers found that both men and women release 400% more Prolactin after intercourse compared to a masturbation-induced orgasm, just another reason why post-sex spooning still feels fantastic.

Some Men Fake Their Orgasms

Before you judge a woman for faking her orgasm have a read of this: University of Kansas researchers surveyed college students and found that a surprising 28% of men had faked an orgasm with their partner. Roughly one-third said they’d been too drunk to orgasm, and almost half said their main reason for faking it was because they wanted to go to sleep. Because the male orgasm usually coincides with ejaculation (although not always), you’d think it would be difficult to fool your partner, right? Well, men have a few tricks up their sleeves, such as, moaning louder and speeding up those rabbit thrusts. Some men even reported that they hid or discarded their condom.

It is important to note that most of the men who faked it had been in a committed relationship at the time of the survey, so they were likely more worried about hurting their partner’s feelings than making the lovemaking session count – wham, bam, thank you, ma’am, clearly isn’t always the case.

You Might Not Enjoy Orgasming

… and that comes down to a thing called “Anhedonia” which refers to the inability to experience pleasure from an activity that is normally considered pleasurable. People with orgasmic anhedonia (also called pleasure dissociative orgasmic dysfunction or PDOD) are unable to feel pleasure when they climax. Orgasmic anhedonia doesn’t affect sex drive, however, and people with the condition still feel driven to have sex and men can still ejaculate, the difference is that the pleasure is missing. Experts believe that orgasmic anhedonia occurs because of a problem with neurochemicals in the brain, particularly dopamine.

It’s also possible orgasmic anhedonia could be linked to psychological issues such as depression or addiction. It could also be connected to medications, high prolactin levels, or low testosterone. Sexual stimulation can still be received, but there’s a disconnect between the sensation and the part of the brain that recognizes that sensation as pleasurable. Fortunately, it’s fairly rare in men, but when the condition does strike, book an appointment with your doctor asap.

Orgasms May Cure Headaches

Is stress at work giving you a headache? Have an orgasm! An orgasm floods your brain with endorphins (those fantastic feel-good neurotransmitters) and they are powerful pain blockers. Researchers in Germany investigated whether having a spooge during a migraine helps relieve the nauseating pain. Their study reported that one-third of patients had powered through sex despite an unpleasant headache, and of those, 60% said they felt better post-coitus.

2 Minutes Counts As Premature & 7 Minutes Is Average

The majority of men out there have experienced the dreaded pre-jack! Experts define premature ejaculation as sexual intercourse that lasts two minutes or less before climax occurs. Funny enough, a two-minute masturbation session is the point at which most men reach the edge of the cliff so to speak. While many men promise you loving all night long, the average man takes seven minutes to orgasm through sexual intercourse.

Orgasms Make You Sleepy

There's a reason you feel sleepy after sex (or even after an extended solo session). The brain releases a hormone called Prolactin at orgasm. As well as shutting off your sex drive it can also promote feelings of sleepiness. But that's no excuse for rolling over and snoring and forgetting your partner!

Orgasm & Ejaculation Aren't The Same Thing

You may not have learned this one in Biology class but it's true – men are capable of climaxing without ejaculating seminal fluid. In fact, a small percentage of men have dry orgasms only, as opposed to the majority who are blessed with both.

Foreplay /ˈfɔːpleɪ/ noun: “sexual activity that precedes intercourse.”

We all know what it is but many don’t partake in the full sensual fun of this glorious action. Let the opening act be the star of the show. For those that don’t and even for those who do; why not add another element into all of that sucking, licking, and groping? There are a variety of toys you can include in on the fun. We break down 7 types of foreplay toys (and non-toys) that you can use in the bedroom for added pleasure and anticipation!

1. Finger Bullet Vibrators

   

Bullet vibrators are great for solo play but the finger bullet is perfect for both of you! Ladies, if his fingers just aren’t doing it, have your man pop one of these bad boys on and enjoy as he sends you to the gates of heavenly pleasure. Packing a powerful 11,000rpm, it won’t be just the ladies who get pleasure out of it. Gentlemen, let her have a go on your head (the one below the belt) or better yet, enjoy giving her all of the pleasure!

2. Nipple Play Toys

The pleasures of the nipple aren’t exclusively for the ladies. Up to 60% of men who get aroused have erect nipples! This is why nipple clamps and suckers are a perfect foreplay product to try out on both of you. Although you can never go wrong with a skillful tongue, clamps and suckers send sensations to another level. You can go hardcore and weight the clamps down or go hi-tech with wireless motors for high-intensity arousal. No matter your poison, neither sex should miss out on the joys of nipple play.

3. Beginners Bondage

   

Bondage play is no longer only for the middle-aged swinger’s three doors down. Thanks to the popularity of the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise, bandage has left the dungeon and anyone can and should explore its hidden joys. It’s always best to dip your toes in first and you can do so with a playful fringe whip, or for those ticklish amongst us, a tickler can tease and thrill every inch of the body. If you prefer taking on the Master role, use a pair of silky sensual handcuffs and take full control. For those ready for the intermediate level, pop in a breathable ball gag and give your partner a night they won’t soon forget.

4. Edible Body Paint

   

Painting is no longer for art class or old age pensioners down the leisure centre on a Tuesday afternoon. It’s for foreplay too and when you make it edible it becomes a sticky mess you don’t mind spending the night cleaning up. Use that naughty imagination of yours and paint a work of sexual art on his or her body with vanilla and chocolate body paint and then enjoy the fruits of your labour by licking every last stroke off! This is a form of foreplay sure to bring pleasure and laughs to any night-in.

5. Massage Oils & Candles

   

Who doesn’t love a sensual deep tissue massage from the one you love (or from that Tinder/Grindr date)? That’s right, no one! So add more to make that rubdown a truly erotic one with intoxicating chocolate, strawberry wine, or almond sweetness massage oils. Better yet, light up a Rose or Erotic Fruit massage candle and use the lukewarm oil it produces to give your partner’s skin a soft and silky feel as you massage every nook and cranny on their body.

6. GC Vibrating Egg

   

Although on the surface a vibrating egg may seem like a toy just for her; gentlemen, you too can get pleasure out of using the wireless remote to control it’s 40 diverse and exciting vibrations! Have her slip it in while you watch a film on the sofa and slowly but surely increase the intensity of the egg. Her (hopefully) pleasurable reactions will bring you all the joy you need.

7. Erotic Games

   

Who doesn’t love a good old fashion board game at home? Well, this isn’t that dusty 1995 Monopoly set you play with the fam, it’s sexual, naughty, crude, passionate, and fun! Erotic games are a perfect way to set the mood of the night and to encourage bonding and confidence between you and your partner. Roll the dice and see what body part your tongue has to go to and include an erotic game into the joys of foreplay!

If you were rich, what would you spend your money on? Taking care of family, giving to charity? Perhaps, buy a new car or house, travel to an exotic location? Well, it turns out; the rich are prepared to splash out tens of thousands of pounds on a single sex toy! Have a look at some of the most expensive sex toys in the world and only dream what it would be like to be a millionaire throwing away 10k on a vibrator.

Lelo’s Inez Gold

£10,000

Swedish sex toy makers, Lelo are well known for their stylish, simplistic, and luxurious toys but the Inez takes things to another level – and you can hit that level for a bargain bucket price of £10,000! The Inez Gold is defined by decadence and elegance and is crafted in either stainless steel or lavish 24-karat gold plate. “It’s perfect for those who understand that you can’t put a price on pleasure.” That’s what Lelo claim and they may very well be right but check out our much more affordable and just as pleasurable alternative.

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Coco de Mer Nell Pleasure Seed Vibrator

£12,000

The Coco de Mer Nell is a real beauty and a steal at only £12,000! Designed as a clitoral vibrator for twin-pronged intense stimulation, Nell can also be used on your nipples, neck, or any other erogenous zone but you can get that with any affordable quality vibrator. The real scale tipper is that this coco seed inspired vibrator comes encased in 18-carat gold plate! Save those pennies for 5-10 years and it can be all yours!

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Victor Phantasm

£43,000

Are you looking to propose to your lovely lady and have a shed-load of cash to burn? No? We thought not but imagine getting on one knee and presenting this mini cocktail shaker-styled beauty to her – you’re sure to get a big YES with a diamond ring in-between this two-part toy. The Victor Phantasm is made to stimulate all the sensitive zones at a time. The basic egg offers a more intense stimulation, and the smaller one is used for more sensitive zones. The only thing it won’t go sensitive on is your wallet.

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Velvor King JCobra Solid Platinum Cock Ring

£141,000

The King JCobra is the most exclusive Cock Ring on the planet it’s creators Velvor claim. One look at the price of £141,000 and it damn well better be exclusive. The JCobra is the perfect gift for any man who calls his average sized cock his anaconda or a gentleman who enjoys not only a vagina (or ass) around his cock but a solid platinum cock ring. The JCobra is made of ergonomically bent precious metal in the shape of a cobra which will be individually handcrafted in 100 hours by an award-winning Master Silversmith from the UK. Boys and their toys, eh?!

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The Pearl Royale

£1,000,000

Yes, you saw that price tag correctly… a million pounds for a vibrator. No, The Pearl Royale doesn’t house a genie that grants you three wishes, it doesn’t give you access to the other royal jewels in the Tower of London, and who knows if it will even give you multiple orgasms but it certainly will cost a cool milli!

The Pearl Royale is designed with opulence, as a commissioned piece of art! The fact that it’s a sex toy is an added bonus. Designed in solid platinum, with brilliant cut and princess cut diamonds, silver-white pearls, princess cut royal blue sapphires and brilliant cut pink diamonds, it is a truly stunning toy and a functional vibrator its creators Fornicari claim. Although, unless you’re a billionaire and can afford to buy all of your wives one, I’m sure it’s more of a statement/display piece rather than that trusted sex toy you use when the mood takes you.

Further outlandish features are its own key, attached to a single South Sea pearl, caged within the crown. When attached, the key activates the multi-speed vibrator but can be detached and worn as an elegant pearl and diamond necklace – oh what a life you must lead to own such an extravagant sex toy! Sell the cars and sell the house. Hell, even sell the kids and get yourself something truly out there, or better yet, pick up our alternative…

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BONUS: Samantha Sex Robot

£2,295

Those exclusive brands and manufactures who create and sell the world’s most expensive sex toys aren’t the only ones. Here at Vibez, we too have a high quality, original, and exclusive toy in the shape of Samantha – our very own A.I. sex robot!

You can read all about Samantha in her very own Blog post HERE

If you’re one who can afford any of the sex toys on this list then you can purchase Samantha HERE.

Moist, slippery, wet, gooey, sticky, tasty, a lifesaver! These are merely a few words to describe one of the most important and simple sex aides: LUBRICANTS. Despite being a constant and massive seller in the adult industry (plus all major supermarkets & Boots), you’d be surprised how many out there do not know the varied differences this liquid substance comes in. We break it down into 5 main categories so that the next time you run out, you’d pop down to Vibez with confidence in exactly the lube you need to make sure all gears are running smoothly.

The king of lubes would have to be water-based lubricants! It is ideal for vaginal, male masturbation, and perfect for use with sex toys.

○ Made from water, water based lubes can be used with any material and offer a light, natural feel when used.

○ Water-based lubes won't stain the bed sheets, they are 100% safe to use with condoms, and they won’t interfere with contraception. Also important to note, water-based won’t muddy the surface of your ever faithful vibrator – something that’s VERY significant for you lovely ladies (and gentlemen) out there to know.

○ A couple of minor downsides would be that it will eventually dry as it’s absorbed through the skin. Although, it can be reinvigorated with a spritz of water or saliva, or better yet, get the largest size available as you can never have too much. Also, it could possibly leave you feeling sticky in the aftermath.

BEST FEATURE: Has multiple uses and has a natural feel for those partial to bare skin play

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If you’re after something more long-lasting, then silicone lube is a perfect choice as a little really does go a long way to make this salutary liquid very kind on the bank balance.

○ Made from silicone (primarily Dimethicone) silicone lube will never dry out, It also leaves the skin feeling soft and supple. Silicone lubes are water-resistant and won’t leave you or your partner in a sticky sweaty heap on the bed.

○ Silicone lubes are safe to use with condoms and ideal for long-lasting lubrication during sex. Many people love silicone lube as it doesn't end up feeling clammy like a water-based lube potential could.

○ Although silicone lubes can be generally more expensive than water-based lube (silicone contains more expensive ingredients) you ultimately get a lot more for your money. Also, being waterproof, silicone lube can be a fantastic choice for fulfilling those naughty bathroom sex fantasies. You can even use it to shine up your favourite latex rubber outfits or masks.

○ It is important to note that silicone lubes cannot be used with silicone materials as they can degrade each other. Also, silicone lube is not compatible with silicone or real-feel sex toys BUT it is perfect for glass or plastic toys and ideal for sex.

BEST FEATURE: A small amount will see you through for awhile and it is also great for those wanting to feel soft and supple after use. 

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Hybrid lubricants are swiftly becoming lube of choice for many out there. Its blend of two popular lubes make for a unique experience!

○ Made from a combination of water and silicone based lubricants, Hybrid lube offers the best of both lubricant worlds. Water-based for simplicity and easy cleanup, silicone for long-lasting glide and it won’t dry out, plus it washes out of most fabrics easily.

○ Many hybrid lubes come Paraben free, they are latex friendly and condom safe. It also has the added bonus of moisturising and conditioning the skin to leave it soft and smooth.

BEST FEATURE: The best benefits of both water and silicone based lubes.

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The ever tasty flavoured lubes are water based and flavoured which make them perfect for ingestion and can be used to enhance the taste during oral sex!

○ Flavoured lubes are great for those who may be a bit shy or sensitive about giving blowjobs. It could be the taste or smell (stay fresh ladies and gentlemen) associated with someone else’s cock or vagina in your face, or you are a newbie to the joys of oral sex. No matter the reason, adding flavoured lube into the bedroom can make going down less scary and a lot more enticing.

○ Sex is a multi-sensory experience and flavoured lubes don’t just taste good but smell great too! Add further sensory fun into the mix by having a gorgeously delicious smell lingering in the air while you get down to business.

○ Although flavoured lubricants are very pleasant scents and generally sugar-free, some will have used sugar to sweeten and that is something that could wreak havoc with your genitals and introduce bacteria and feed yeast, particularly if you’re sensitive to those little buggers. Always read the label before buy.

BEST FEATURE: Water based and flavoured for amazing tastes and smells during sex.

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Organic lubricants aren’t as well known as their counterparts; however, they pack a hell of a punch from all of the best Mother Nature has to offer!

○ Organic lubes are mostly botanically infused lubricants which are fully natural and entirely glycerin and paraben free and contains no sugar derivatives. Other major benefits are that they are naturally derived, hypoallergenic for sensitive skins, ph balanced neutral, water-based and water-soluble making it very easy to clean up, 100% Vegan-friendly, and no risk of irritation or infection especially important for those out there susceptible to irritation.

○ Most, if not all organic lubes are created using only the most natural and cleanest ingredients and are usually designed to keep your most intimate areas soft and moisturized as while as healing and soothing your skin.

BEST FEATURE: 100% natural and free of chemicals or anything that isn’t natural and is perfect for those conscious minded buyers.

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